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. With the revised information and up-to-date research, Out of the Shadows is the premier work on sex addiction, written by a pioneer in its treatment. Sex is at the core of our identities. Gentle Path Press. With practical wisdom and spiritual clarity, it points the way out of the shadows of sexual compulsion and back into the light and fullness of life.
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Dr. Carnes also gives a clear explanation of the bond that compels people to tolerate the intolerable, and for the first time, maps out the brain connection that makes being with hurtful people comparable to 'a drug of choice. Most importantly, carnes provides practical steps to identify compulsive attachment patterns and ultimately to change or end them for good.
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Mr rodriguez resides in Iowa City, IA. In addition, she is a respected writer, compulsive sexual behavior, speaker and presenter on women’s issues, and leads workshops and weekend intensives for women in the areas of co-dependency, trauma, communication, self-image and esteem. Carnes is a licensed marriage and Family Therapist, an AAMFT clinical member and approved supervisor.
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Gentle Path Press. Woven throughout the book are stories of recovery which illustrate sexual healing principles, model new behavior, and support motivation for change. A first-time examination of sexual anorexia, an extreme fear of sexual intimacy and obsessive avoidance of sex, by the acknowledged leader in the treatment of compulsive sexual behavior and recovery.
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Facing heartbreak Steps to Recovery for Partners of Sex Addicts. Utilizing extensive research and elucidating case studies, exploring intimacy, Carnes develops concrete tasks and plans for restoring nurturing and sensuality, building fulfilling relationships, and creating healthy sexuality.
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Validating a caregiver's painful journey for what it is opens the door to support them in useful, non-shaming ways. An attachment-focused model, prodependence recognizes that no one can ever love too much, nor should anyone be pathologized for whomever they choose to love as is often the case. Facing heartbreak Steps to Recovery for Partners of Sex Addicts.
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